Dog Park Follow Up- Vindication!

So I took Ramona on her usual dog walk tonight with much trepidation. Last night's altercation has been weighing on me all day. I certainly did not want another incident like last night and at the same time I do not want to be intimidated away from the park which I only use 10 mins in the morning and the evening everyday. As I was making my rounds I ran into the other dogwalker who witnessed the whole argument. I was ready to pounce on him for slinking away BUT he apologized profusely for the other person's behavior and how disgusted he was at what happened. He went on to say that I was completely in the right and that dog has been aggressive to other dogs in the park. Both the guys who walk Jazzy do absolutely nothing about her and he is going to have a talk with the guy who I argued with last night. It was completely uncalled for. I cannot tell you how vindicated I felt. Since Jazzy's owner is friendly with many other dog owners in the park I was worried about my relationship with the other walkers. I feel so much better knowing that there are people who get it.
We talked for a little bit and I expressed that I understand the importance of the dog park and having a safe space to run the dogs of leash. Ramona grew up in off leash parks. Dog parks are safer and the dogs who run at them are better socialized, which is good for everyone. Good dog owners realize that the "unwritten" rules in off leash parks exist for the safety of the owners and their dogs. I am glad that a majority of the nice people who take advantage of Fort Hill understand this and most are very responsible and friendly. No animal lover would want to see a dog get hurt. I hope that Jazzy's owner's do not ruin it for everyone someday. Plus, who would want to hurt this poor old thing?

Dog Park Etiquette

I have been meaning to write this post for a while. Tonight pushed me over the edge. I have a 13+ year old dog who is literally on her last legs. Luckily I live across from Highland Park in the Fort Hill neighborhood of Roxbury. Since I moved in over 2 years ago I have been walking Ramona at Fort Hill everyday. There is a small dog community who let their dogs off leash up there. A majority of them are very nice. I keep Ramona on a leash most of the time because she cannot really run anymore, but in her prime I used to run her at dog parks all over the city: Franklin Park, Peter's Hill, Fresh Pond, S. End etc.. When a dog owner takes their dog to these parks there are certain behaviors or etiquette that most people follow: picking up after their dog, controlling barking etc.. One of the most important ones is that if your dog is running towards another dog or person please let me know if they are friendly. It is really a safety issue. This seems to have been lost some of the nice people of Fort Hill. There have been numerous occasions when a dog has rushed Ramona and the dog owner says nothing. Twice I have actually asked if a dog was friendly and got nothing as the dog proceeded to be aggressive towards Ramona. It is kind of scary when a dog you do not know runs towards you.
There is also a set of dog owners in the park who own a dog named Jazzy. This dog is never on a leash. She is walked by two different men. They seem to know a lot of people in the park and Jazzy is a very exuberant dog. I also think they breed her and other people in the park have adopted the puppies. She is a large boxer. This dog has attacked Ramona at least 6 times, pinning her down on two occasions. This dog has also attacked other dogs I know and drew blood. When ever I see the owner in the park I tell him Jazzy is aggressive to my dog and he does not seem to care. He never puts her on a leash. When I yelled to him across the park tonight as I try to avoid him and he yelled at me and told me not to threaten him. All I said was, "Your dog is aggressive to my dog and has attacked her numerous times, my dog is on a leash." He also went into how he has been living the neighborhood longer then I have been alive and just keep walking my dog and mind my own business. Another dog owner he was with slunk away as he continued to argue with me and basically call me a liar. Jazzy does play with other dogs in the park and is fine, but she does not seem to like Ramona very much. There is another dog in the park who also has problem with female dogs and that owner immediately takes control of her dog when she sees us and we have a great relationship. In all my dog owning years I have never met a dog owner who does not seem to care that their dog does harm to other dogs and a dog community to supports that behavior. Every other dog park I have ever been to would never put up with such bad dog park etiquette. It is unfortunate because the park is really a hidden gem.

Thrill of victory and agony of defeat

I just noticed it has been over a month since I updated my blog. I am not a fan of updating just to update so sometimes these log stretches are inevitable. Since the new year there has not been much going on. Work is crazy right now with a huge project I am working on that has forced me to work on weekends. I do not mind, it is still more engaging then my last job even with the drama involved.

Of course I have been snowboarding a ton and we had wonderful night away at the Mt. Washington Resort thanks to the best groupon ever. We took tons of pics which I posted on Facebook. Mel seems to have an issue with my camera where she thinks she is taking a picture but is really in video mode. Here is a perfect example. I have a lot of these little vignettes in my iPhoto library thanks to her technological prowess.



And of course we are all waiting anxiously for little nugget to appear. I have watched my friend Leigh get bigger and bigger each time I see her and get updates on what vegetable the nugget is each week according to her What to Expect When Expecting iPhone app. Based on how active the little tyke is in the womb I think s/he will keep JRro and Leigh very busy when s/he pops out.

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What I am most excited about these days is the Winter Olympics. I love watching the Olympics when they come around but the Winter Olympics is my favorite. Being a skater as a kid, skiing as a young adult and becoming obsessed with snowboarding this past year I am drawn to the Winter Olympics. The Olympics was really the only sporting event we watched as a family and for two weeks every four years we sat in front of our ONE Non- HD tv and got caught up in the pageantry, drama and excitement that is the winter games. The Winter Olympics gives me a chance to watch sports I usually do not follow or even hear about during the year. The events at the Winter games are all about speed and flight. The winter game athletes defy gravity and make racing down a mountain at 90 miles an hour or flying through the air look easy. I get much more excited about the luge, bobsledding, snow cross and skating then the 100 yard dash. I know the summer games are a bit more accessible, most people around the world can run, swim, and play those sports outside with out much gear, but watching athletes race on snow and ice is thrilling. While watching the opening ceremonies last night my friend Monica discussed the Winter Games not being as diverse, as a sea of white athletes who participate in events many people around the world do not have access to, parade into the ceremony venue. I do hope and think with the addition of many new winter sports this will slowly change the face of the Winter Games. Though I still do not understand why the women ski jumpers are not allowed to participate, definitely a black mark.

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I found the opening ceremonies to be beautiful and solemn as the death of a young Georgian luger hung over the crowd. I know each country puts on their best face when presenting to the world, but only Canada could give us Orca whales swimming across the floor, Sarah Mclaughlin, macho punk tap dancing fiddlers, Joni Mitchell and of course K.D. Lang in all her butchness singing an amazing rendition of Hallelujah. I know the grass always looks greener but I would be blown over if we would see that at a US opening ceremony. So let the games begin and I will be glued to the TV the next two weeks as I have been my whole life to celebrate "The thrill of victory and the agony of defeat".